Tuesday, May 7, 2013

Mo Money, Mo Problems

Over the weekend, I became debt free.

When I first moved out from my parent's house, nearly 10 years ago now! I was extremely naive and foolish with money. In a few short years, I'd racked up about £8,000 worth of debt through various bad decisions and living well beyond my means. It got to the point where I would go to the shop and get 60 packs of 11p noodles (for lunch and dinner) and big boxes of bran flakes to see me through the month.

One day, I looked around and thought "this is ridiculous". I was earning a good wage, but everything was going towards paying of creditors but not in a very smart way. I lived in a nice flat in Leeds, I was going out and doing what I wanted but things that had to be paid for such as bills, etc. weren't being paid. It had to stop!

Here's how I did it:

1. What is your monthly income? It seems like such a silly and simple thing to say but you should keep your pay slips and bank statements to hand. Ensure your tax code is correct (You don't want to be paying too much tax!) and make sure you know exactly what is coming into your account and when it's due in there.

2. What do you owe? In order to get firm grip on your debt you need to know how much you owe, to who and how long the repayment period is.
Start by going through your monthly bills. First and foremost, you should make sure you can afford the roof over your head, utilities and food. Everything else can wait.

Once you've done that, have a look at other expenditures. Do you need a Sky Subscription? Do you need a £50 a month phone tariff? If you can make your non-essential expenditure go down, you'll have more funds to play with and things won't feel as tight.

If you have more than one creditor, are you in a position where you can consolidate your loans? Generally, this will depend upon your credit rating. You can check out your credit rating for free through sites such as Noddle.com (you still have to have a credit card, but it doesn't charge your card). If you can't consolidate your loans, its not the end of the world.

3. Speak to your creditors. If, after looking at your monthly outgoings, you worked out that you can't afford your repayments, speak to your creditors to see if you can arrange altering payments - maybe making them smaller but over a longer period of time. Make sure you get confirmation of all agreements in writing. I don't mean to sully the good names of Call Centres but we've all had it where we've spoken to someone only to call back next week and theres' no record of the conversation!
If you're in receipt of any benefits from your local authority/government, you should be able to freeze any interest on any loans you have as well, which is super handy!

4. Be Organised & Take control! I have a spreadsheet that I update monthly when I know what's been paid, what's due to be paid and where I'm standing on repayments. It looks like this:
This isn't my financial information, is filled in like this to give you an idea.
So I know how much I have to do whatever I want with each month, after everything else is paid. 
I use internet banking constantly, I'm able to log on and check what's in my accounts (savings, loan, Credit Card and current account) and move money accordingly. I can see whats been paid and when direct debits are coming and going.


The HSBC Fast Balance app is super handy and also I receive daily text messages telling me whats in my current account, updated with the 5 most recent transactions. 

You can also control your Standing Orders & Direct Debits such as how much you want to go out and when. Seems pretty obvious, but if you can arrange them for the day after you get paid - then the funds won't be sitting in your account for days/weeks and you won't be tempted to spend! 

5. Hide your credit cards! It's tempting to use your credit cards for extra splurges and treats, DON'T! You'll undo your hard work! When I was sent a new credit card, I didn't activate it. I hid it! I actually can't tell you where it is - but each month I see the £20 I put towards it, chip away at whats there and its gone down and down and down!
When you can close down an account after it's hit it's zero balance- do it! 

When you first sit down to tackle it, debt can look like a big, scary, untameable monster - the longer you bury your head in the sand, the bigger that monster will become! But once it's tackled and a payment plan is in place - the monster goes away. There are loads of free debt management plans online and the Consumer Credit Counselling Service is fantastic at answer any questions you may have!

GOOD LUCK!

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Friday, May 3, 2013

Thoughts on Blogging


I feel like I don't have much to say at the moment - of course, life is as busy as ever and loads of things are happening but I'm finding the whole blogging thing insincere lately. Quite false and I'm not sure about myself within it.


Wednesday, May 1, 2013

Weight Loss Wednesday


Loss this month: Stayed the same:
Loss overall: 51lbs
Pounds till target: 17lbs

April has been a bit of a mixed month! I got sick half way through and after several days of being unable to eat and some pretty gross side effects of actually being sick - I dropped down to 184 lbs - which I hadn't been in a long time!

After I regained my ability to eat, I put back on the weight I lost and then some BUT! I joined the gym. 

I know...I'm the laziest person around, but it's been a fairly recent development and so far I've enjoyed what I'm doing. 

My wedding dress fittings start in a few months (the dress has been picked!) so I have an aim to lose the next 17lbs before the end of September. So keep your fingers crossed for me!

Monday, April 29, 2013

Busy Week!


Duders! Last week was so busy - Ceri & I celebrated our 2nd Anniversary and I had a birthday!

On Tuesday evening, to celebrate the first - we headed to the Smokehouse in Pontcanna. I'd made reservations at the beginning of April because this place has been receiving super reviews! We were not disappointed.

I had a Pulled Pork burger, Ceri dominated a Pulled Pork thing in a skillet with BBQ Beans. Pulled Pork for everyone! It was so delicious, and hot damn I can't wait to go back even though I don't think it'll be for a while - my tummy probably couldn't handle it!


On Thursday, we both had the day off. I joined the gym and hit it first thing in the morning (urch), we had lunch then headed off to Bristol to see Kate Nash in the evening. We wandered around the markets and old buildings - I'd never been to Bristol before, only ever passing through on the train! And it was much nicer and more to it than I thought! We had dinner in a place called Start the Bus and I introduced Ceri to the wonderful world of Halloumi Cheese! Can you believe he'd never eaten it!? 


I'm looking for some down time, honestly. I've been so tired lately and I don't know why - I've been having afternoon naps and all sorts. I'm too old, me thinks!

Friday, April 19, 2013

A Confession


The other week, I popped into Lush to top up on my moisturiser - Celestial, it was £11 + for 45g. I'm pretty sure it hasn't always been that expensive. I've been a loyal fan and user of Lush Products for more than 10 years but, finally, they've managed to price me out. Thanks.

So, I took to Twitter for recommendations on other moisturisers. In doing so, I also admitted - I don't exfoliate. 

In fact, I don't have much of a skin care regimen to speak of, anymore. I used to but since I haven't been buying Lush Products, I haven't taken the time to investigate what else is out there.

On the feedback of some friends, I had a look into Simple. 

It was cheap, kind to your skin and light products. I don't like feeling like there's a lot on my face. I also bought some exfoliating daily wash from Clean & Clear.

I've been using them for about 2 weeks? And initially, my face had a break out - which isn't unusual for me around my certain points of my Cycle (generally, I'm pretty blessed with clear skin). But my face felt so soft. And still does! It's been easy to fit the products into my daily routine, it doesn't feel like a chore. 

On certain days, my skin drinks up the moisturiser. The products don't smell, they're light and cool, not full of chemicals and my skin isn't as pink in the morning either.

I feel like a terrible girl, sometimes, for not paying more attention or taking more of an interest in beauty products. But my mum never put make up on me growing up and I was busy mucking around on a skateboard to give too much thought to this stuff!

I'm paying for it now, mind!

Thursday, April 18, 2013

Things I Love Thursday

I haven't done a TiLT in WEEKS! I haven't felt particularly awed by anything or motivated to even have a look!


A pretty simple idea, but I loved it all the same. I'm a child.

And this was just amazing to watch.


This week saw the end of MSN Messenger (RIP BB), I haven't logged onto the service in years - othert things replaced it. Instagram, twitter etc. But man alive, I spent way too many hours logged onto that thing. I remember when we first got the internet (I was 14 - Freeserve 4 LIFE!) and my dad persistently warned me to stay off chat rooms and the like because of weirdos on the internet. How right he was.


My First Year as a Woman by Laura Jane Grace. No words. Just moving.


My new favourite sandwich: pastrami, parmesan cheese, rocket, mayo and black pepper. Amazing.


This is crying in space. whaaaat?!

Until next week! <3 p="">

Wednesday, April 17, 2013

Birthday Wishlist

1 // 2 // 3 // 4 // 5 // 6 // 7 


I turn 27 in 8 days! 8 DAYS! I hardly feel mature enough to be officially in my "late twenties". Being a  "mid twenties" gal has served me well, thus far. I'm sure 27 will bring all sorts of new responsibilities to me but until I come across them I'm happy to bask in my naivety and personal life irresponsibleness!

Overall, 26 was pretty good. I've got no major complaints, I look on 27 as miles away from how I feel. I always feel like an awkward 14 year old, I just know more now. 

I remember when I was 21 and I felt people were so condescending and rude to me, people at work would mother be, I was an adult dagnabbit! I wanted to be treated like one! Now I look back on 21 and think - wow, I was a young pup! I didn't know as much as I thought I did! And in 10 years time, I'll probably look back on 27 and think just about the same thing.


Tuesday, April 16, 2013

Devilishly Delicious


I think now, more than ever, it's important to know whats in your pre-packaged food. I'm sure you'll all sick of hearing by now about the horse meat in your burgers, but it's always been a bit of a grey area, has it not?

So when the opportunity arose to work with a company who provided a quality pre-packaged food that was free from gluten and artificial colours & preservatives - I jumped at the chance!

Devilishly Delicious offer a range of desserts that can be made at home with ease, that might be a bit harder than you might ordinarily try!


I made these up for the dessert on our Easter Sunday dinner - I didn't want the faff of making a full on dinner and then a dessert for 6 people. The instructions state that 1 box serves four. All you have to do is pop into a pan and follow the cooking instructions - for some they come to the boil and then stir for 5 minutes and others vary as appropriate but what I found was that you really have to squeeze the mixture out because in the two I made up (Creme Brûlée and the Sicilian Lemon Pot) the mix was quite thick and I struggled to get enough to serve 3 out of each box, let alone 4!


Pour into the mould you'll be using and pop into the fridge for 1-2 hours. I put it in for about 3 and when it came to taking the lemon out of the pot, they lost their shape on the plate a little bit. The taste was like a sharp sorbet but in a good way! I didn't try the Creme Brûlée but I've been informed it was nice!

I'd like to try them again to be honest, I'm annoyed at myself that they lost their shape. Thinking about it, I'm half tempted to pop the mould into the freezer so I can be sure that the dessert doesn't lose it's shape when it comes out of the mould, but then I'd just be left with a frozen dessert!

I'll let you know how I get on!

The products were supplied by the Devilishly Delicious Dessert company and I was not financially rewarded for this post. All opinions are mine and an honest reflection of how I found the product.

Monday, April 15, 2013

Currently


Watching: Game of Thrones & Mad Men! They're both back and I'm as happy as a clam! I've missed Don & the Gang! I feel like, with 2 episodes in, this series is a lot darker? Obviously Don is thinking about death a lot. I'm a bit miffed that his second attempt at marriage is as successful as his first with all his philandering but still, I'm sure it'll all work out in the end?! And Game Of Thrones! OY! It takes a lot of self control to not watch as soon as I get in from work - I have to wait for Ceri! I haven't read the books but I feel perhaps I should. I want to know what happens and who ends up on the Iron Throne!

Listening to: The new Paramore! I'm not sure what everyone else thinks of it, but I'm really into it! I know it's different from their previous records - a bit more pop like. I can't believe Hayley Williams is 25 now, without trying to be condescending about it - I remember when Paramore were first on the scene and now I feel like an old fogey (27 next week! OY!) But still it's such a good record! Also the new Kate Nash and Tegan & Sara records are worth a spin!

Thinking about: fate. I believe everything happens for a reason and sometimes when I look back I see everything fitting into place even though at the time it felt like it was horrible, awful and all a mistake. Life moves on and evolves around us even when when we're making plans that may, or may not, come to fruition. I never feel that the plans I make are set in stone - the rug can be pulled out from you at any time but it helps to have a safety net. The last few months have been so full of change and uncertainty that maybe I should just sit back and see where the path takes me?

Loving: This weather! It's 16 degrees today, so mild! I can hardly comprehend just how much the weather has a positive effect on my mood. 

Reading: I've just finished The Time Traveller's Wife - which I highly recommend everyone reads. So I'm feeling a little bit emotionally delicate at the moment, but when I do pick up a book next, I think it might be The Hunger Games series.

Making me happy: I've been ill the last couple of days (vomiting, headaches and more) so being cwtched up has made me happy! I'm even happier that my symptoms have subsided. My brother was admitted to hospital on Saturday with a dropped lung (no idea how he managed it!) But he's been given a chest tube by the doctor and will make a full recovery. I'm thankful and happy that I have supportive family and in-laws around me! 

Friday, April 12, 2013

Flashback Friday


Who are these young pups? This is Ceri & I at the Millennium Stadium in Cardiff - almost 2 years ago, when we first started dating. 

Leinster we playing Northampton in the Heineken Cup Final and the game was totally sold out. Somehow, after a lot of searching and Ebay trauma Ceri managed to get us tickets because he knew Leinster were my team and they won!

This was a wonderful evening, we had amazing seats and after the game we went and had some drinks and then sat in the park holding hands.